Don't fall into the trap of a Bad Boy.

Many girls constantly fall into the traps of "bad boys" or "players."

Sometimes we don't even realize that they are wrong for us because we are so blinded by their charm.

Here are a few early signs of a bad boy, or a guy who can get scary controlling.

1. He keeps you hidden. He'll only talk to you alone, never introduces you to his friends, and won't publicly be affectionate with you. Don't allow a boy to keep you hidden. If he likes you he'll be more than happy to show you off.
2. He wants to know where you are at and who you are with at all times. Control is never a good thing.
3. He is rude towards your friends and family. This pretty much means he does not respect you.
4. He only calls you by a pet name. Like baby, cutie, sweetie, cutie pie, ect. Most likely he is a player and uses pet names for girls so he doesn't make the mistake in calling you by the wrong name....think about it.
5. He blames you for everything... and you accept/believe it!.......SIGN OF MANIPULATION. 
6. He never apologizes for hurting you. He clearly does not care about your feelings if he can not apologize.
7. He tells you that there are other girls who would love to be with him but he picked you. A boy that really likes you will NEVER tell you this. This is him almost threatening to leave you. Biggest clue ever that he is no good.
8. He talks bad about you towards his friends. This means he does not respect you.
9. Only hangs out with you to make out but never takes you on a real date. Another  BIG CLUE that he is not serious about you.
10. Doesn't like you having guy friends....CONTROL ALERT.
11. He hits you.....sign of ABUSE.  

Sometimes we need to stop and look at the bigger picture. You may really like him and he may be one of the "cutest boys ever." But that does not make it acceptable to be mistreated, disrespected, and controlled. A boy/man should never control you. He should support you and trust you. If you're boyfriend or future boyfriend falls under these categories then you may fall into an abusive, manipulating, and/or controlling relationship.